wilmomma
Safety, by design

We protect this community
like it’s our own.

Wilmomma was designed safety-first from day one. Here is exactly how — in plain language, no fine print.

Your safety. Our obsession.

We built Wilmomma like
we’re building it for our own sister.

Because we are. Here are the five promises we will never break.

Phone-verified, always

Every Wilmomma account is tied to a real, working phone number — no fake profiles, no bots, no Russian troll farms hawking essential oils.

Vaccination status stays private

You can filter by what matters to you — but no one ever sees what you chose. Same for your kids’ vaccination info. Always private. Always.

Kids’ ages, not birthdates

We never display your child’s birthdate publicly. Other moms see calculated age ranges — perfect for finding playmates without leaking PII.

Your data is never sold

Wilmomma makes money from partner gifts — not from selling moms’ data. We don’t have a "data partner" page because we don’t have any.

Mom-moderated, real humans

Report anything that feels off. A real human reviews every report. Bad actors get disabled. We protect this community like our own.

01

Phone-only authentication

Every Wilmomma account is verified via SMS one-time code (Twilio Verify). There are no email/password logins. This means every account is tied to a real, working phone number — a meaningful filter against bots and fake profiles.

02

Row Level Security on every user table

Our Supabase Postgres database uses Row Level Security policies on every user-facing table. That means a mom can only ever read her own profile, her own children, her own messages, her own wallet. Even our own engineering team cannot see your DMs without explicit, logged admin access.

03

Kids never identified publicly

You can add up to 5 children to your profile, but their birthdates are never displayed publicly. Other moms only see calculated age ranges (e.g. "2-3 years"). Children’s vaccination status is private. Children cannot be tagged, messaged, or contacted on Wilmomma.

04

Vaccination is a private filter

You can filter who appears in your feed by vaccination preferences (yours or your kids’) — but nobody else ever sees your vaccination status. We don’t display it on your profile. We don’t share it in matches. It is filter-only data.

05

No financial data on our servers

All card data goes directly to Stripe. We store only a Stripe customer ID and the last 4 digits + card brand. Even our admin tools cannot retrieve a full card number — because we never have it.

06

Mom-moderated, real humans

Every "Report" submission lands in a queue reviewed by a real human within 24 hours. Confirmed bad actors are immediately disabled. Repeat offenders are blocked at the phone-number level — meaning they can’t simply create a new account.

07

Block, mute, leave anytime

Block any mom, group, or partner with one tap. Mute event notifications from any group. Delete your account from Settings — your profile, photos, and matches are removed immediately (financial records retained per NC law).

08

Your data is not sold

Wilmomma’s revenue comes from one place: partner gift fees (20% of redemptions). We do not sell, license, share, or monetize mom data. No "data partner" relationships exist. Our privacy policy is short and human-readable because it has to be.

Wilmington, NC

Motherhood is hard.
Wilmington is full of moms.
Let’s introduce you.

One phone number. 90 seconds. Free forever for moms. Welcome home, mama.