Wilmomma was designed safety-first from day one. Here is exactly how — in plain language, no fine print.
Your safety. Our obsession.
Because we are. Here are the five promises we will never break.
Every Wilmomma account is tied to a real, working phone number — no fake profiles, no bots, no Russian troll farms hawking essential oils.
You can filter by what matters to you — but no one ever sees what you chose. Same for your kids’ vaccination info. Always private. Always.
We never display your child’s birthdate publicly. Other moms see calculated age ranges — perfect for finding playmates without leaking PII.
Wilmomma makes money from partner gifts — not from selling moms’ data. We don’t have a "data partner" page because we don’t have any.
Report anything that feels off. A real human reviews every report. Bad actors get disabled. We protect this community like our own.
Every Wilmomma account is verified via SMS one-time code (Twilio Verify). There are no email/password logins. This means every account is tied to a real, working phone number — a meaningful filter against bots and fake profiles.
Our Supabase Postgres database uses Row Level Security policies on every user-facing table. That means a mom can only ever read her own profile, her own children, her own messages, her own wallet. Even our own engineering team cannot see your DMs without explicit, logged admin access.
You can add up to 5 children to your profile, but their birthdates are never displayed publicly. Other moms only see calculated age ranges (e.g. "2-3 years"). Children’s vaccination status is private. Children cannot be tagged, messaged, or contacted on Wilmomma.
You can filter who appears in your feed by vaccination preferences (yours or your kids’) — but nobody else ever sees your vaccination status. We don’t display it on your profile. We don’t share it in matches. It is filter-only data.
All card data goes directly to Stripe. We store only a Stripe customer ID and the last 4 digits + card brand. Even our admin tools cannot retrieve a full card number — because we never have it.
Every "Report" submission lands in a queue reviewed by a real human within 24 hours. Confirmed bad actors are immediately disabled. Repeat offenders are blocked at the phone-number level — meaning they can’t simply create a new account.
Block any mom, group, or partner with one tap. Mute event notifications from any group. Delete your account from Settings — your profile, photos, and matches are removed immediately (financial records retained per NC law).
Wilmomma’s revenue comes from one place: partner gift fees (20% of redemptions). We do not sell, license, share, or monetize mom data. No "data partner" relationships exist. Our privacy policy is short and human-readable because it has to be.
One phone number. 90 seconds. Free forever for moms. Welcome home, mama.